Spectrum Falls Counseling

How will my counselor treat me? Will they be honest while respecting my choices? Will the counselor be actively involved or do they tend to listen only and provide few suggestions or opportunities for growth? I need to have someone who encourages me and reinforces what i am doing well. I don't want to feel intimidated or criticized in a counseling relationship. How do I aid my partner feel nice about coming to counseling in the 1st place? I want to feel comfortable with the counselor and I want my partner to feel comfortable too, despite our different requirements.